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Begging for Belly Rubs? Why Your Cat Likes to Have Their Belly Scratched

That’s right—belly rubs are not just for dogs.

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Petting a cat’s belly can go either way: Some cats love getting a belly rub, and others are ready to kick you with their back legs if you even try. The belly is a particularly sensitive spot for cats because of hair follicles that can be sensitive. 

It’s also the location of the primordial pouch, a layer of fat, muscle, and tissues that protects their organs. It’s in a cat’s nature to guard this area from anything that may seem dangerous. For these reasons, it’s really dependent on the specific cat as to whether or not the belly has a place on the petting menu. 

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Main takeaways

  • Some cats love belly rubs, because it makes them feel safe and is a way to bond.

  • Some cats don’t like belly rubs, and petting their belly should be avoided.

  • Look for signs, such as purring — if your cat likes belly rubs — or hissing, if your cat does not. 

  • You can create a safe relationship with your cat, by training them to enjoy belly rubs.

Do all cats like belly rubs?

Not all cats like belly rubs. Some cats may be too ticklish or sensitive to enjoy belly rubs. “That’s typically a no-touch zone, since a cat’s stomach is a vulnerable area in the wild,” Jennifer Van de Kieft, a feline behavioralist and feeding coach, says. “If another animal rips open your stomach, you’re toast. That being said, some cats do seem to enjoy belly rubs.” This higher threshold for petting may be due to their socialization and other factors. She adds: “Some cats enjoy a lot of petting, and it must feel good to them. They like our attention, too.”

Why does a cat show their belly?

A cat shows their belly for various reasons. This could be a sign of trust and love. However, it could also mean your cat is just stretching or itching a scratch. Exposing their belly may also be a hunting mechanism, to entrap a hand or toy. Meanwhile, exposing a belly with all four legs up could indicate that a cat is feeling defensive. 

Why do some cats like belly rubs?

Cats who like belly rubs, love belly rubs. There are many different explanations for this behavior. 

Bonding and social interaction

Similarly to non-belly petting, petting a cat’s belly is a way to bond and interact with them, if they like it. It’s just another way for you to show them the affection and love you have for them. 

They feel safe with you

Since the belly is one of the most sensitive parts of a cat, a cat letting you pet their stomach means that they feel very safe with you. They trust you enough to touch one of their most sensitive areas. 

It’s your cat’s preferred way to be pet

All cats have specific, personal preferences as to where they like being pet — under the chin, behind the ears, on the back. So, it’s a matter of learning what your cat likes and feels good for them, reading their body language, and observing both positive and negative reactions. 

Signs your cat is (or isn’t) open to belly rubs

You need to pay attention to your cat’s body language to gauge their preference for belly rubs. There are a couple of different signs that might indicate this. 

Showing their belly

Showing you their belly can be a sign that a cat loves and trusts you. However, this isn’t always a sign that they want their belly pet. You must read their body language first. “A cat exposing their belly is a sign they trust you, and not to be mistaken with an invitation to touch the belly,” Van de Kieft says. 

Tensing up

Van de Kieft says to check for signs of tension in your cat. “As you’re touching and petting your cat, if you get close to their stomach and you feel them tense up, that’s a sign not to continue.”

Biting or hissing

Other cats will give you immediate signs that they do not want you to pet their tummy. “Some cats will immediately bite or scratch or hiss. That’s a firm, ‘No, thank you,’” Van de Kieft says. 

Rolling over 

Rolling over might be a good sign that your cat is open and willing to have you pet their belly, Van de Kieft says. “If your cat rolls over while you’re petting to give you access, gently try it.”

How to safely attempt to belly-rub your cat

First, you always want to look at your cat’s body language to see if trying to pet your cat’s belly is a possibility. Signs like showing you their belly, purring, rubbing against you, or putting their head or face in your hand may be signs that it is a good idea. You may want to warm your cat up by petting them in other areas that you know they like before gently trying to see if they’ll be receptive to a belly rub. If they like it, they likely won’t fight it. 

What to do when your cat doesn’t like belly rubs

If your cat doesn’t like belly rubs, you should only pet your cat in the spots where they feel comfortable. 

Can you train your cat to like belly rubs?

There are options for training a cat to be more open to belly rubs. “You can try using desensitization and counterconditioning,” Van de Kieft says. “Find a starting point, like touching your cat’s sides, and reinforce calm behavior with treats. Once that is acceptable and/or pleasing to your cat, gently and gradually start to inch a little closer to the belly. This may take several sessions to get your cat to accept belly rubs. Finding a high-value treat will help.” 

Cat doesn’t like belly rubs? Here are alternative ways to pet your cat

If your cat doesn’t like belly rubs, you can explore some of the classics: scratching behind the ears or on the head, and a chin rub or scratch. Cats may also enjoy being stroked on their backs or being rubbed against their faces. 

Bottom line

  • A feline’s desire for belly rubs varies by individual cat. 

  • Paying attention to your cat’s body language, and reactions to having their stomach touched, is key to determining if they’d like a belly rub. 

FAQs 

What’s so special about a cat’s belly?

Cats’ bellies are special because they’re a very sensitive part of their bodies. They have something called a primordial pouch, which is a layer of fat, tissue, and muscle, that protects the organs in their stomach. 

Should you rub a pregnant cat’s belly?

That depends on the cat. If your cat liked belly rubs before pregnancy, it’s likely they will still enjoy them during pregnancy. However, some pregnant cats become highly aware of how extra vulnerable their stomach area is while carrying kittens — so you always want to make sure to read your cat’s body language. 

Why do some cats hate belly rubs?

Some cats hate belly rubs due to personal preferences. The reasons could include being too sensitive, ticklish, or just being uncomfortable with it. Look for body language like tail movements, ear placement, or tenseness. 

What breed of cat likes belly rubs?

Breeds such as Ragdoll, Bombay, and Sphynx cats are known to enjoy belly rubs. 

Why do cats want you to rub their belly, and then bite you?

A cat may invite a belly rub and then bite you due to a protective instinct. Because a cat’s belly is one of their most vulnerable spots, even if they are enjoying a belly rub, a defense mechanism may kick in to protect the area — which could result in a bite. 

Kerensa Cadenas

Kerensa Cadenas is a writer based in New York. She’s previously worked at The Cut, Thrillist, Cosmopolitan, and Complex. Her work has been featured in Vulture, GQ, Vanity Fair, and others. 

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